capture only destination IPs

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Maybe a better, simpler solution is to just run tshark, making use of its statistics options? For example:

tshark -i some_interface -s 64 -q -z conv,ip,"ip.addr==1.2.3.4"

... where 1.2.3.4 is the IP address of a particular server you're interested in. If you have multiple servers, you can just or the filters together, e.g., "ip.addr==1.2.3.4 or ip.addr==2.3.4.5". If you want all conversations, you can omit the filter altogether and post-process if you need to.

If you need to create an overview of connections and are not interested in the amount of the traffic, then you can iteratively remove traffic from the capture once you've added it to the list of interactions. As there are probably a few top conversations, removing those from the capture process might significantly reduce the capture sizes.

So basically:

1. Capture traffic for a short while
2. Analyze the traffic and and the top interactions to your list
3. Add these interactions to the filter in a not clause
4. Go back to step one, rinse and repeat :-)

The filter will become something like:

(tcp[13]=18 or proto icmp or proto udp) and not (host 10.0.0.1 and udp port 53) and not (host 10.0.2.10 and tcp port 80) and not ... etc

Some small notes on your capture filter:

• Both tcpdump and wireshark use the same filtering language (BPF), no need to convert
• protocol names in a BPF filters are case sensitive, so you need to use "udp" instead of "UDP" and "icmp" instead of "UDP"
• tcp[13]=18 means: look at offset 13 in the packet and only capture the packet when its value is 18. This means the SYN-bit (2) and the ACK-bit (16) both needs to be set, but all other TCP flags must be unset
• tcp[0xd]&18 = 2 means: look at offset 0xd (13 in decimal) and then take it's value and then only look at the bits for SYN (2) and ACK (16) by doing a logical AND. If the result is exactly 2, then capture the packet. This means, the SYN-bit (2) needs to be set, the ACK-bit (16) needs to be unset and all other bits in the TCP flags can be set or unset (as they were masked by the AND (&) operator.