ping requests not shown (if not sent) to non existent devices

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Thanks. In other words: Devices that do not exist in a LAN, are not in ARP tables so pinging an IP address does not transmit.

ping (on macOS) stupidly (?) says "Request timeout for icmp_seq ."

on linux "Destination Host Unreachable" is slightly better

I changed the subject, hope that's OK

An alternative case is if the device you are pinging is NOT on the same subnet, i.e. needs to be routed, and is not present. In this case, you will see the ping request go out with no response if routing is setup correctly, which matches your original expectation. The way I look at: the stack needs a MAC address to build the frame; if the destination host is local, then arp will not complete so no MAC address is available, so the stack cannot put the frame on the wire (this is your sample case here, as already described in the answer). Conversely, if we need to route, the stack does have the destination MAC address: not of the target host, but of the next hop gateway (router). So the stack has what it needs to put the frame on the wire, and you would then see it.